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An update on the blog titled, “A Story About A Girl”. Progress. Connection. Love. Those are the words that first come to mind when thinking of this particular patient (I will call her DJ). DJ has made DRASTIC progress. It was brought to my attention shortly after I posted the original post that DJ’s grandma wanted to give DJ away…she was tired and exhausted and she felt that she just could not handle DJ any more. DJ’s grandma wanted ME to take her. She wanted me to take DJ and raise her as my own. Obviously, this is not an option for many reasons, but the main one being DJ has a family and she needs to stay with her family….DJ and I have made an unbreakable connection which is good and bad. It is good because now she trusts me and she listens to me and we have a ball of fun together. It is bad because I am leaving. As I move on to the next adventures God has in store for me, I am leaving her behind. It may sound harsh, but it is the truth. I am leaving her behind and she may never know why I left her. Just last week when she came to therapy, she was 30 minutes early so her grandma was walking her past the clinic doors to head to a bench to sit outside while waiting until her appointment time. However, DJ refused to continue to walk past the door. She stopped right in the doorway. Spotted me from across the room and with a big smile on her face reached out her arm as she wanted me to come get her to work. I walked over to her and explained to her she had to wait for 30 minutes and then I would come get her…with a little struggle she complied. Two o’clock rolled around and I walked out to get DJ. She jumped up grabbed her stuff, handed it to her grandma, grabbed my hand, and walked into the clinic. She immediately sat down, took her shoes off, and waited for me to give her a direction. PROGRESS!!! CONNECTION!!!! I was so excited. But then I was overwhelmed with a feeling of sadness as it was then that I realized I would be leaving her. She was so excited to see me…and in just two short weeks, she will be left to wonder where I am. After another AMAZING session with DJ, I took her out to her grandma. I explained how well DJ did during therapy. As the grandma listened, she looked at me and with a HUGE smile on her face said that she is doing a little better at home. Then she said many times “thank you”, “thank you for coming to Haiti”, “thank you to your parents”, etc., etc., etc. It was then that I realized, grandma wasn’t as exhausted as she used to be and grandma wasn’t as defeated as she used to be. DJ’s grandma was proud of DJ…very possibly for the first time ever. And as I watched them walk away to get a moto, I realized that I would be leaving her behind, but her grandma is here to stay. LOVE!!!
Progress. Connection. Love.